Friday, April 19

Leipzig



Leipzig is in Germany and is a city 150 km south of Berlin. Although Leipzig is not as renowned as other German cities like Berlin and Munich, it bears its own charm. It is a place which carries historical significance and is where musician/composer Johann Sebastian Bach lived from 1723 to his death in 1750. This makes Leipzig a MUST-VISIT for fans of Bach and musicians.

For me, coming to Leipzig was entirely by chance. It was the destination assigned to me by Germanwings when we tried our luck at blindbooking

When you are in Leipzig, you will have to visit the Bach Museum. It is inspiring to learn about Bach's journey to become a world renowned musician/composer. Although I am not that into classical music, it's pretty cool visiting the church where he once played his music, and visiting the site where he was buried. I am in awe and respect for this man who, after more than 200 years of his death, his legacy lives on.

Saturday, March 9

The Rose - Death is the Only Certainty

Today, I saw the rose on the table which my boyfriend has given me on Valentine's Day. Something was different about it. It was no longer vibrant. It has died. Mold has grown on it and a dull, brownish color of death and decay has replaced the once fragrant and bright pinkish rose.

A weird sensation overwhelmed me. 

How can something so beautiful be reduced to this in a matter of weeks. As I examined it, it reminded me of my own mortality. As I threw the rose away, it reminded me that things, no matter how grand/beautiful/good they are, will be gone one day.


Before we continue, join me in paying tribute to the Rose.

Monday, March 4

How to Influence people and Sell them your Idea

As you know, I am really passionate about self-improvement, inspiring people to lead a better life, making people happy etc. It excites me whenever I see an opportunity for them to be inspired. The problem is that, sometimes I get overly excited doing so and people start to perceive me as being too pushy. This turns people off.


Because of my poor skills to convince and influence people, I have been ruining several relationships with people around me. People have become wary of me, do not talk to me as much.

But through these bad experiences, I have gained some insights which I hope to share with you so you won't make the same mistakes as me!

Saturday, March 2

I am guilty of Procrastination!



I have to confess.

I have been lazy again. I gave in to the tiny voices in my head and kept procrastinating when it comes to updating my blog. What am I avoiding? Why is it that time and time again, I have this burst of energy at the beginning and then this energy dwindles off after a while...why is it so difficult to sustain this energy?

Have you ever felt this way? Being so excited about something at the beginning and when you finally kick-start it, you find it hard to sustain it- you start to procrastinate.

Wednesday, November 14

Applying for a HDB Flat in Singapore


As many of you are aware of, in land scarce Singapore, applying for public housing in Singapore requires up to 5 years in advance. Not many people will get their desired flat on the first attempt, and even if they do, they have to wait around 3-5 years for the construction of the flat.

If you are interested in applying for a HDB flat, here's a step by step guide on how you can do that.

The following article is written by guest blogger Teck Chong. 

Couples looking to settle down and wanting to get a HDB flat?
I have written a simple dummy guide to provide the step by step procedures to apply your love nest.

1    1. Check HDB website for any upcoming sales launch. The screenshot below is an example of an upcoming BTO sale launches in Nov 2012. Tip: You can sign up for HDB’s newsletter so that you will be kept up to date with the latest happenings in HDB.



You and your partner can decide on which location to choose and size of your flat. There are various priority schemes which home seekers can utilize to increase their chances of getting a desirable queue number.


The priority schemes are Multi-Generation Priority Scheme (MGPS), Married Child Priority Scheme (MCPS), Third-Child Priority (TCP) Scheme, Tenants Priority Scheme (TPS) and Ageing-in-Place Priority Scheme (APPS).


At the same time, there are some of the things that you need check before deciding on the flats
-          Check you and your partner’s eligibility to buy
-          Check loan eligibility
-          Check your fee payment capability
There are some questionnaires in the HDB website which will provide some guidance on your eligibility.
http://services2.hdb.gov.sg/webapp/BP13EligCheck/BP13SHome?strSystem=CHECK  (Eligibility to buy)
http://www.hdb.gov.sg/fi10/fi10321p.nsf/w/HLHDBWho?OpenDocument (Loan Eligibility)


The period of sale application will be disseminated to the public via news, email or other social media. Once the sale application is open to the public, home seekers will have about a week to decide and apply for the town that they desire. Upon applying for the flat, you need to pay a non-refundable administrative fee of $10 via cashcard or credit card.


      2.       Once the application window closes, applicants must wait at least 3 weeks before they will receive a queue number to invite them to select their flats. If you are not assigned any queue number, it means that you are unsuccessful in the balloting. If your queue number is out of the range of the flat supply, fret not. There are people who will give up their chance because their desired unit is being taken up.


      3.       If you have a queue number, HDB will send an invitation letter to you with the appointment date to select your flat. In the invitation package, there are brochures, application forms and some guidelines for your information. Do read through them carefully because buying a house is a huge investment. Make no mistakes! While waiting for your appointment date, you can check out the units that are taken via HDB’s website. The information is updated real time.


       4.        Nearing the date of your flat selection, remember to check the units available for selection and decide which unit you would like to choose as your dream home. There are many factors that you have to consider for selecting a flat:
-          Afternoon sun
-          Level of the unit
-          Price
-          Floor layout
-          Proximity to the lift and the staircase
-          View of the unit
-          Noise

        5.        It is advisable to select at least 2 units just in case before your turn comes, so that you won’t panic if your unit is selected. Remember to head down to the BTO site to do some ground survey before you make any decisions because you might get some inspiration when you are actually on the site. In addition, you got to decide whether you would prefer HDB to build the flooring and door for you. All these are up to each individual to decide but of course, there is a fee attached to it. Different BTO will have different price.



        6.        On the selection date, please head down to HDB hub early so that you can orientate yourself so that you wouldn’t miss your queue number. Remember to bring the necessary documents to prevent any hiccups or delay.

      When we were at HDB hub, we were feeling very nervous because we were afraid that our dream unit was being taken away by other families. When our queue number was called, we were called into a room where by a sale officer will process your application. He/she will check through the documents quickly followed by asking which unit do you want and he will reserve for you first. After signing many documents and explanation, we need to go up to level 3 to pay SGD2,000 option fee by NETS or cash and head back to the room. The sale officer will then ask you to confirm the actual unit that you want because the decision is irreversible. (Make your decision wisely and once you decided, stick with it!) The whole procedure for flat selection is done.
  

       7.        HDB will invite you down again within 4 months to sign the lease agreement and you will have to pay a 5%/10% of your flat price as down payment via your CPF or cash. 
      

      Hope that gave you a clearer insight into how HDB application in Singapore works. It will all be worth it when you get your dream home.
      

      Good luck! (:


Wednesday, October 31

An Act of Courage


There is no time to waste. Start living your life!







I did something I was really proud of yesterday.


I gave a 4-minute speech in front of 80 audience and was the emcee for a party.

ALL THIS WITHOUT MY MIND BLANKING OUT.

It was amazing because I never imagined myself doing that! I have always been such a shy girl and when it comes to speaking in front of everyone, I would have preferred to shy away into the background. Into anonymity. 

I am so proud of myself for stepping up and taking up this challenge! 

Initially I found myself really nervous and uptight. However, as the party went on, I started to feel more at ease and relaxed.

I must really thank everyone for being so supportive and giving me this opportunity to stand up on stage to lead! =D

With that, I have broken one of my many personal barriers!

Are you ready to break yours too? 

Think of something you have always been fearful of doing and JUST DO IT!

Muster enough courage to break your limits and not only will you emerge a more courageous person, you will gain more ENERGY too!

Here's my challenge to you. Do an Act of Courage today and share it with us in the comments box! (:

Thursday, October 25

Introducing 10-days Vipassana Meditation Retreat as taught by S.N. Goenka

This article will broken down into 2 parts. The first part will be about my encounter with 10-day Vipassana (Mindfulness) Retreat, and the second part will be a reflection of what I have learnt.

Quote by S.N Goenka

My Experience

When I first heard of the 10 days Vipassana Meditation retreat, I got really excited! I knew I wanted to go for it. It was something new. Living in solitude for 10 days without my phone, laptop, books, and in total silence. It was a challenge! 

I have always wanted to pick up meditation but lack the discipline to do so. This retreat would be a good time for me to foster that much needed discipline. 

Many people have been raving about the course and I wanted to see for myself what is so really special about it.